It’s one of my least favorite qualities in myself. Mostly because I am truly not very good at gauging success or failure in social settings. I assume that things are great unless someone tells me differently.
It’s easy for me to see a positive quality in someone. I can rationalize easily the differences in opinions and perspective.
I’m not threatened by your concerns… Your thoughts or your opinions.
And that leaves me second guessing events. People. Circumstances.
Should I have done more? Was I good enough?
But begging for feedback is a sign of weakness.
So I am just left here. Wondering.
And second, third, fourth guessing.